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Hello and welcome to my previously defunct and now resurrected LJ. My new fics (2014 - 2016) are available on my AO3, with links under the cut. Otherwise, this LJ is now friends-only and updated on a strict schedule of "every now and then".

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And only if you can tolerate my inside jokes.

The public portion of this LJ consists mostly of fic with the occasional meta/general post thrown in. Feel free to browse the index below if you find yourself interested in something I've written! The list is maintained in time with new stories. (Last updated on October 8, 2016.)

Fic Masterlist: Pokemon, Metal Gear Solid, Three Kingdoms adaptations, Samurai Warriors, Harry Potter, Resident Evil, miscellaneous )

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The last time I sifted through my flist was over a year ago and it's again getting to the point where it's unmanageable, which calls for a solution. What happens is that I only defriend accounts that combine some of:

--I've had no interaction with and vice versa since first adding them - if we haven't spoken anywhere in all that time, we probably never will so what's the point;

--have been inactive and abandoned for over a year;

--I don't even recall having any conversation with besides the friending;

--I generally don't feel like I have much knowledge or common ground with the person, even though we've been "friends" for a significant length of time.


TL;DR: I'm only removing journals below even the most casual "acquaintance" level while most of my flist stays as it is. (Conversely, I declare defriending amnesty on this journal so it doesn't come across like I'm just being a jerk.) The only reason I do this from time to time is for my own peace of mind, since I'm not comfortable with having so many "faceless" journals friended. And yet I don't like to kick them totally without warning.

If I've removed you and you just read this for the public content, you won't be affected anyway. If I've removed you and you'd like to stay, drop me a line here (comments are screened), but bear in mind that the reasoning should be something beyond "so we can keep listing each other without ever interacting".

There we go.

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This isn't really as radical as the title makes it sound.

There's just something that has been bothering me regarding my friends list. There are a few people I've had friended at least since last year or even longer - and we've never once talked on LJ (apart from the time we friended each other). Or there are people with whom I last had any contact in 2007/early 2008 and not since then. In both of these cases, it's starting to make me uncomfortable to show my friendslocked entries to people I know virtually nothing about, or at least nothing current. I, for one, am very different from when I first got an LJ.

Therefore: I'm posting this today, and tomorrow I'll defriend everyone this would pertain to. (It only concerns a very small and specific group of people on my friends list, so if you're reading this and are in doubt, you're probably not among them.) I'm just not a fan of defriending anyone without notice.

This post is public and public it stays; I'm even linking it from the "friending policy" section of my profile in case anyone needs to refer to it. If you find yourself defriended and think we should stay mutual friends, just tell me here (but please do give me some reason). If, by any chance, you friended me for my fics, you'll still be able to read them since the vast majority of them are public (and usually crossposted to the appropriate comms) and soon I'm planning to make an index post for them as well. Any other questions or problems, feel free to bring them on right here.

Last but not least, this is nothing personal. I think it can't be if I basically don't know you at all. I'm only doing what seems to me necessary at the moment and won't actually hurt anyone.

Thanks for tuning in.

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